Paul was a very close friend of mine, we worked together as chefs in a kitchen in Leeds town centre. We had planned to get up and go on a adventure to south America - this never happened. When I last visited his grave, there was just a wooden cross but no headstone. As and when I visit Leeds, I will make the special jouirney to Otley to visit his place of rest. His passing away had an enormous effect on my life, to put it straight I have been very, very sad ever since.